1. My relationship with God is my highest priority
  2. My relationship with my wife is second to my relationship with God
  3. Provide a safe place for my wife and kids (power over power)
  4. Live in Christian Community and have accountability
  5. Have a vision for my family and provide opportunities to make the vision a reality
  6. Honor God with my finances
  7. Date my wife- ask her how we are doing? (God gave me two ears and one mouth for a reason.)
  8. Live my life with a spirit of forgiveness
  9. Guard my heart
  10. Meditate on what Jesus did for me on the cross