Cheryl’s Top Ten List for Wives……

Do you realize than in Scripture, when God references marriage, He always speaks to the wives first? Interesting huh?

So today, I want to give to the wives my “Top Ten List for Wives” (husband’s you will see Jeff’s top ten in a few days!)……..we won’t forget you!

The Top Ten List for Wives
– My relationship with God is my highest priority
– My relationship with my husband is second to my relationship with God
– Be subject to my own husband so that he may be won without a word    by my conduct when he sees my respectful and pure conduct
– Let my adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit
– Do your husband good and not harm all the days of your life
– Respect your husband
– Guard my heart at all times
– Build your husband up and let him know you desire him
– Live my life with a spirit of forgiveness
– Meditate on what Jesus did for me on the cross and understand who you are in Christ 
Feedback?? Thoughts?
Oh! And today is my twin girls’ birthday. Happy 22nd……
22nd??? wow……..I’m really not that old, am I?

Jeff & Cheryl Scruggs

Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs are authors, speakers, and Biblical counselors, not LPC's. Their writings include the widely used book I Do Again, which chronicles their thirty-year story of marriage, betrayal, infidelity, divorce, emotional damage and scarring, forgiveness, reconciliation, trust, and remarriage to each other. Jeff and Cheryl are the founders of Hope Matters Marriage Ministries in Dallas. They speak at conferences and weekend worship services in churches across the nation, sharing their love story of hope, redemption, restoration, and God taking hold of their lives. See their website: www.hopeformarriages.com.

This Post Has 7 Comments

  1. Becca Bill

    I don't know you, nor am I married…but by the grace of God I will be someday. Thank you, this was beautiful. I loved #3. 🙂

  2. Just ME

    Cheryl -Love this – my first thought was just heard this at church and great to be reminded – then saw your link to the Village which is where I heard this : ) Blessings on you and thanks for the reminders

  3. ellen

    Hi, Cheryl,Found your blog off of a Matt Chandler twitter! My daughters and son-in- law go to The Village! Our youngest will be 22 in a week, and he is ending up in the Dallas area also!My husband and I were married for 21 years, divorced for 8, and we have been remarried for almost 5 years! God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly beyond all we think or imagine!Can't wait to read the book! Ellen Forrester

  4. Cheryl Scruggs

    Thanks for all of the comments!

  5. Cheryl Scruggs

    Dear Anonymous,Are u guys in counseling? Jeff & i are Biblical counselors as well if u need anyone.

  6. Anonymous

    This is beautiful. Heard about you and your husband at WaterMark's ReEngage last night. We are going through a difficult time..my husband had an affair and I am struggling. I am buying your book and hoping my husband and I will get to read it together.

  7. Anonymous

    I am struggling with taking care of my husband's needs physically and following my own sex drive. His (every 2-3 days) is greater than mine(every 2-5 days depending on the time of the month). How do you balance this? I desire my husband and love him deeply but feel this self-imposed pressure to meet his needs every 3-4 days whether I am in the mood or not. What would you do?

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *